It is interesting that since writing that article and as I have continued on my journey, as no doubt you have too. I’ve put a lot of time into understanding what I have come to recognize about myself, that I am like many who have come to the planet at this time….an Empath, which like the Indigo Child is a highly sensitive being who feels energy all around and indeed also can know what others are thinking…their feelings and moods, ups and downs. It can be daunting being an empath as overwhelm is a common occurance.

So in light of the questions you’ve asked about :……“How do you help people see?” How do you help them see what they cannot see–knowing that, without awareness, it is impossible to change? How do you bring them to the “cliff of consciousness” where the light of reality infuses them?

Does it involve teaching, according to their level of evolution? Possibly. Does it evolve sending them ‘Love & Light’ – certainly. But then what?

Certainly as well in light of my lesson in that lifetime gone past…this continues to be a conundrum. I feel that in respect to what you ask the first port of call in considering these issues is…….how does it feel for me??…. to see/feel/know the pain a person is feeling, that I can feel, that moves through my being and hurts me, when I see them overlook what is obvious to me, clear as a bell and yet they see nothing……. haven’t a clue and therefore, can’t change…….First, what occured to me was that to change the experience for myself I need to change the perspective from which I see their pain….what if, everyone, one time or another HAS to go through their low points, has to encounter challenging experiences that call forth from that person the resolution to eventually look deeper, see further and find the answers that bring change!!……And if they could see what you can see, they wouldn’t be where they are, so enlightening them in anyway is counterproductive to their need for the journey of discovery……..People will hide their stuff as long as the fear of facing their demons, is stronger that the fear of enduring their issues….when like in my case…..with my illness, I was taken to the depths of despair, and I count myself as a person generally willing to look at my stuff, and even I, was unwilling until hanging onto it got too painful, too much and then the breakthrough came. Brilliant…..I even begged my husband to leave me wallowing in my pain. I knew it would bear fruit.

At the end of the day people have to find their own answers, step onto their own cliffs, see the light and allowit to infuse their consciousness, face their own demons and own their own pain…..until they do, it is all for naught and we can’t give answers, we can’t show the way…..wisdom is not interfering in others games…..they have to decide it’s time to stop playing games and get real and it can only come from them.

What I believe we can do is……feel their pain but sense it as good, not see it as seriously bad as they do, see it as profitable and purposefull and project the light of hope and faith in their resolve and ability to make it……it is interesting that our belief in “death” which our conversation about reincarnation refutes….but this belief in death causes us to see trauma and difficulties in a much worse light than it truly is and we panic about solutions …perhaps over zealous desire to show someone the light is in fact a vote of no confidence in their ability to find it themselves, better believe in that they can do it, and will, take that step.

Perhaps the real reason we feel a need to “help” is because we are trying to avoid the pain their clamours for help cause us as we feel guilty claiming our own hard won joy and lightness………..so seeing the virtue and value in the light and the dark may be a way of being OK with both sides of the coin!!

lots of light and love to you Gilles and hope it doesn’t take months before you become aware of my answer, as it happened with me. Ursula XOXO

And in this space between heaven and earth where spirit resides, if it makes you feel good then it’s right!!! I am older than you and I remember years ago when counseling or just helping friends as people have always confided in me, I began to see pictures, like a movie playing of times gone by, olden days and I would see this person in it….playing a role, maybe 100, 200 or much older and it frightened me at first…should I say something? am I imagining it?…I would get hot under the collar, afraid to say something…one day I just said…what the heck!! And off I went……….turned out the other person could always relate to what I said, and saw and in fact it often explained things really well, in ways they could not have better understood, the more I trusted and went with what I saw the clearer and better able to see I became!!

Answer: Trust what come to you…..you will feel it and it will be right!! The other thing I want to say to y0u is that the best best best and most FULL proof thing you can do is…………….Keep asking questions, don’t ever stop asking questions and the best way to ask is…..to be Wondering, Curious and interested…and you already are that, so you are on the right track…..and above all EXPECT an answer….it will come and when it does you will know it is right!!!

Have fun and enjoy the flight!! Ursula S

If you have managed to read through this whole post i must admire your patience. And again thank you! I love to have someone to talk to when it comes to these things.